Good Manners are a Reflection of Who You Are

Good manners are more than just common courtesy. It's one of the ways people decide what kind of person you are. Good manners are not only a sign of upbringing, respect, and consideration for others. People with good manners are perceived as more intelligent and more caring. Look people straight in the eye when you meet them, smile, offer to help them. Extend a strong, firm hand shake. To do anything less assures that you will not only be perceived as rude and crass, but also weak and frightened.

Avoid using foul language particularly when speaking with adults or when young children are around. If you are still holding tight to the thought that you have a right to "be yourself" and to do anything less makes you a hypocrite, you are stuck in the mindset of the 1960's and it's time your moved forward.

We are not talking about not putting your elbows on the table here, we're talking about treating people decently ... just as you want to be treated. On this particular issue, there is one edict you should remember unless you want to stay in the position you are currently in for the rest of your life. If you want to move into the current century, remember this:

"Being Yourself is Not the Solution. It's the Problem. Learn to Change."